Elder Marilyn McKinley welcoming adults of different backgrounds to a candlelit table with a purple runner, a communion loaf and a wine chalice

Hosted by Elder Marilyn McKinley

The Healing Table

A place designed with you in mind. At a table where sharing and caring takes place, there is no judgement or condemnation.

All are invited and welcome — sharing is where healing begins.

A communion loaf marked with a cross and a brass chalice of wine on a purple runner

The Table Is Set

Bread broken. Cup poured.

Before a word is spoken, the table is set. The bread is broken so no one has to arrive whole. The cup is poured so no one has to carry their thirst alone.

This is an open table. Whatever you bring — grief, silence, doubt, joy — there is a place for it here.

Look around the table and you will see us all: the pregnant teen, the widow, the grieving parent, the one still wrestling with unforgiveness, the person who feels abandoned, the one who has lost hope — and the ones who refuse to give up, quit, or throw in the towel. Every one of them has a seat — and so do you.

What we bring to the table

Grief

Honoring those we've lost and the love that remains.

Loneliness

Finding connection when the world feels distant.

Unforgiveness

Releasing the weight we carry toward others.

Abandonment

Healing the wounds of being left behind.

Self-Forgiveness

Extending to ourselves the grace we give others.

Childhood Wounds

Words said and names called long ago that still echo today.

Fear & Anxiety

The things that weigh heavy and keep us awake all night.

Addiction

Loosing the chains we cannot break alone.

Broken Relationships

Mending what was torn between us and the ones we love.

Illness

Carrying a body or a diagnosis we did not choose.

Your Host

Elder Marilyn McKinley

"The Healing Table is a place that has been designed for sharing and caring. Sometimes speaking it out loud helps to lessen the fear and anxiety of certain situations. Sometimes we are afraid to share because of the harm we expect it can cause us. But it is my belief that sometimes silence does the greatest harm."

"Here you can feel free to discuss those things that weigh heavy on your mind and keep you awake all night. At this table there is no judgement and no condemnation."

"There are sometimes things from our childhood that still haunt us — words people said, names you were called, things people did that hurt you, and you were ashamed or embarrassed to talk about. You can do it here."

Share at the table

Sometimes silence does the greatest harm. Say the thing that has been keeping you up — the table offers a gentle question to sit with.

No camera is required to sit at this table. You never have to show your face or give your name — your words are enough.

GriefNovember 1, 2026

"When I lost my child I felt like I had failed God. I thought he was disappointed in me and I was in turn disappointed in myself. The grief was such that I couldn’t get out of the bed. Then, God sent me hope…."

— Ca’Tina. You are seen.

A question to sit with

What did that hope feel like as you carried the grief of losing your child?

GriefNovember 1, 2026

"Losing my mother taught me that grief is love with nowhere to go. At this table, it finally had somewhere."

— Denise. You are seen.

A question to sit with

What is one small way you could let that love have somewhere to go this week?

Self-ForgivenessNovember 1, 2026

"I've been my own harshest judge. Today I'm learning to set a place for myself, too."

— Anonymous. You are seen.

A question to sit with

What would it sound like to speak to yourself the way you would speak to a dear friend?